Tuesday, August 2, 2011
Somebody help me with this, please?
OK, I think you just need to start being honest with her. I know it is not going to be the easy way out, but it is the path to the RIGHT way out. I am assuming you are in your early twenties. You don't have to tell her everything you do, but tell things like this because it is less stressful on you. (you don't have to lie, which can be exhausting) Who cares if you switched from morning to afternoons?! If afternoons is what is going to make you go to class, then so be it! Maybe you are not a morning person, and she is. She prob. wants you to be like her, but you are not! As long as you are attending class, then who cares! Start showing some responsible independence, and she will gradually learn to trust you. She will realize, "Hey, my daughter/son just did that all on their own, without my input, and they were successful at it. I can trust that they will do the right thing in most situations in life, so I will back off." However, she also needs to realize that people make mistakes, and that is the only way you will ever learn and grow as a person. Try not to let her see you F up too much and she will learn to trust you. You will not get there by lying, which will make it worse.
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